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"New Book Reveals A Revolutionary Approach To Healing The Extremes Of Partisanship And Escalating Violence On A National Level Through The Best Psychology Has To Offer"
While also Uncovering the Root Causes of Our Most Destructive Behaviors, Providing a Framework for Peaceful Conflict Resolution, and Offering Hope Through High-Tech Human Relations
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What is America in Therapy?
America in Therapy offers a whole new approach to healing our nation's growing crisis, that allows you to understand and address violence and division without getting caught in partisan politics or ideological battles.
We achieve this by examining national issues through the lens of psychology and family systems theory, applying what we know about healing abusive family dynamics on the individual level to our larger social problems, without resorting to blame, shame, judgment or punishment. And as a result..we are freed up to focus on creating real solutions that are built on the healthiest human relations which have a foundation in safety, peace and love - this is America in Therapy.
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America in Therapy is a shortcut
I worked as a psychotherapist for many years, treating children, families, couples and individual adults, co-directing a sexual abuse treatment program, and dealing with my own healing from childhood trauma, when I had the dawning realization that the same abuse dynamics I witnessed in individual families were playing out in our larger society, with the same deleterious effects on masses of people that dysfunctional families have on their family members.
My Own Healing and Education Unexpectedly Took Me into a Larger Social Arena
Suddenly I found myself stepping outside the confines of my individual therapy office and realized that by speaking about many of the unhealthy and often extremely hurtful ways we operate as a country, I was entering a political arena I never imagined in a million years I would participate in.
But it only made sense. I knew as a psychotherapist that we are all conditioned by the beliefs and behaviors of the people we grow up with and depend on, and that when we are free to address these dynamics from a psychological point of view, which is intrinsically non-partisan, we become free from the chains of us-against-them thinking in all areas of our lives.
After several years of treating hundreds of people, studying family systems, and figuring things out through both professional experience and personal healing - without anyone showing me how psychology could address our national crisis - I finally reached a point where I knew that some of the most important answers and tools we need to heal divisiveness and escalating violence in our country, are lying hidden in plain sight in our individual offices, and that I had both a deep desire and a responsibility to bring them to public attention and national conversation.
Now, you have the opportunity to apply to your own life– to your personal and family relationships, community involvement, business, and all other areas of your life, the entire America in Therapy Model I built through my new book America in Therapy: A New Approach to Hope and Healing for a Nation in Crisis.
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America In Therapy Book
Everything you need to start
healing our nation's growing crisis.
6 Secrets of Repairing Relationship
Helps you turn insights into action, with step-by-step exercises and reflection prompts that will help you practice new communication skills in real situations, move from win/lose to win/win dynamics, transform conflicts into opportunities for deeper understanding and growth, build lasting reconnection skills with those you care about.
What is your conflict type?
Discover your default approach to conflict among the five key styles: Combative (Aggressive), Passive-Aggressive, Submissive, Avoidant, and Mediating.
America In Therapy Takes You On An Amazing Journey From Treating Individual Family Trauma To Creating A Model For Healing Our National Crisis
We Turn The Model Of Social Change Upside Down By Shifting From a Paradigm Of Force And Control To Using Psychology To Heal Our Collective Mental Health
Discover How We Can Break Free From Endless Partisan Debate And The Alienation From One Another It Creates.
This Is Something Completely New, Completely Different, Completely Unlike Anything You've Ever Heard of Before. What’s New Is The Never-Before-Contemplated Understanding That What We Know Works For Individuals Can Work For A Nation
Would it surprise you to learn that the key principles to healing our growing divisions and violence can be found in an easily digested, user-friendly form in this 201 page book?
And yes, formulating principles is the first step, while applying them and seeing real proof of their effectiveness in your own life and on a much larger social scale is quite another.
But know that America in Therapy offers you both new ideas AND specific tools to begin to apply them.
So Let Me Show You
I have the benefit of a Masters' Degree in Psychology and Counseling from Antioch University, thirty-four years treating children, families, couples and individual adults, co-directing a sexual abuse treatment program, and the gifts of my own healing journey. My life changed dramatically over time; real healing does not happen overnight. It happens most reliably by continuing the healing work and practicing new skills, learning from our mistakes and trying again.
Your results will vary and depend on many factors …including but not limited to your background and early conditioning, your life experiences, any healing work you have already done, perseverance, how open you are to new ideas, and how willing you are to expand and grow by trying something new and different, etc..
Warning! Read and use America in Therapy at the risk of:
questioning some of your most deeply held beliefs about good and evil people
understanding that real change always begin with you
discarding the unquestioned belief that the use of violence to get our way is justifiable
totally reworking your relationship to power, competition, and dependency on others
understanding that peace and safety are our only hope for survival
And yes, It took me a long time and a lot of experience to reach these very different, and for many people, very confronting conclusions, about what we need to change and how to change it, in order to thrive and even survive.
With that said … let me jump right in…
I Changed My Own Life By Incorporating The Revolutionary America In Therapy Model of Human Relations
Americans from all over the country are talking about and using different aspects of the America In Therapy Model to revolutionize the ways we deal with conflict, address urgent economic, gender, faith and other pressing social/political issues, but the America In Therapy Model brings all these urgent concerns together under one umbrella of healing the underlying psychological wounds that generate dysfunction and violence throughout these many arenas.
...And this gives us a clear path forward to heal our collective mental health faster than ever before…
IN FACT, THE CLEAR PATH FORWARD IS ON HEALING OUR MENTAL HEALTH AS THE THE SUREST ACCESS TO RESOLVING WHAT WE NOW CONSIDER IMMOVABLE POLITICAL DIVISIONS
...And best of all it brings understanding of how to repair our human connections without blame, shame, or violence
Let’s hear from some of the people who were amazed and enlightened by reading America in Therapy:
Reviews
Isabella Braveheart had this to say
READ THIS BOOK. It's innovative, timely, relevant, intelligent, heartfelt, and deeply needed!
This book is incredibly inspiring, as it gets to the root of what's underlying our deepest pains and most challenging struggles as a divided country. Most humans have deep childhood wounding, that, when healed, alters the course of their lives (myself included). Phyllis Leavitt illustrates how that same healing is exactly what's needed to alter the course of America's future.
America in Therapy is unique in its micro to macro application of healing personal and collective mental illness on a global scale, to bring our human family back into wholeness, cooperation, safety, and love. What all humans ultimately want in life.
Soon After, Cameron Posted This In Our Private FB Group:
And even though getting a [INSERT RESULT THEY GOT], that's not the best part...
The best part is [INSERT HIDDEN BENEFIT].
That's right, [EXPLAIN THE HIDDEN BENEFIT FURTHER].
And [INSERT TESTIMONIAL NAME] isn’t the only one either…
...And soon [INSERT RESULT THEY GOT]...
Here’s a post he posted in our private FB Community (which you will have access to once you join the program)...
Here’s another "First Deal" Challenge owner who started using these strategies…
Elaine Belson, a therapist herself, expressed her affirmation of America in Therapy this way:
A Long Overdue Must Read
Phyllis Leavitt takes her 30yrs of experience as a psychotherapist outside the consulting room to answer the question of our time: how to heal our bitterly divided country. Unlike many books about mental health, "America in Therapy" is far from dry. Phyllis's eloquent writing makes this book an easy and engaging read. It is also the only book of its kind, explaining the root causes of political division from a psychological perspective. This is the one expertise missing from mainstream conversation - and the most important!
Phyllis breaks down our division to its essence: a dysfunctional symbiosis between unresolved emotional wounds and a cultural stigma of mental health that prevents most Americans from learning how to appropriately manage and communicate emotions. She uses the analogy of the family to explain what will work to repair relationships with our fellow Americans. Best of all, "American in Therapy" is a positive, hopeful book about the need for human connection and the promise of compassion.
Tristan Kwiecinski sees the desperate need for a new approach to healing our country:
We Have the Tools to Fix This
Phyllis Leavitt, the author of America in Therapy, provides us with what we all desperately need right now: a toolkit to understand our political division and a toolkit to heal our cultural pain. If we are Americans, then America is our family. We are invited to bring the wisdom of family psychology to address our political crisis. It's a message that is overdue.
Paul F. Reed, sociologist and archeologist is excited about the connection between individual and collective mental health that America in Therapy highlights:
This Book Breaks New Ground and Can Help Heal America!
Phyllis Leavitt breaks new ground with this book. Through her years of working as a therapist, she has come to understand the deep pathology at the heart of America. She draws on multiple examples from her practice and makes great connections from the small and the personal, to the macro and the nation as a whole. Her prescription for healing calls for America to address its mental health crisis. Individual healing is a start and she feels that it can and should grow to the much larger scale of taking steps toward nationwide cure and rehabilitation. I think everyone will benefit from reading this book and I highly recommend it.
Annie L. is hopeful that the America in Therapy Model of healing will become common knowledge
This Book is a Revelation!
Phyllis Leavitt is a true visionary. She has used the wisdom gained from her work as a therapist, her own depth of experience, and her compassion to fashion a beautifully written book that fearlessly and lyrically presents the profound principles we need to heal our country and a planet. These ideas are revolutionary, and at the same time they make such sense that as a reader I wondered over and over again why this is not common knowledge. This truly exceptional book is perfect for the times we live in and the challenges we face in the future. It will give the reader hope and solace and a vision of what is truly possible if we are courageous enough to face our own trauma and lead with our hearts.
Charlotte Taft, a lifelong therapist has this to say:
Healing for a Nation in Pain
Phyllis Leavitt has given us a gift--wisdom from her 30+ years as a psychotherapist guiding people to more grounded, peaceful and fulfilling lives. Sharing stories from her practice (made anonymous, of course) Leavitt explores the painful isolation, anger, divisions, and violence in our society. She illustrates how the tools of psychotherapy help individuals and families heal, with an eye to how these approaches can help our society heal. This is not a pie-in-the-sky, magic-wand fantasy. It is a down to earth, practical guide coming from a woman whose life's work has been about seeking peace and wholeness for herself and others. Leavitt's deep yearning for harmony, and her honesty and vulnerability about her own search for a grounded life, make this a book we can all use at a personal, community, national, and even global level. Leavitt celebrates human beings' capacities as well as our wounds. As she writes, "...we will need a new energy source...it will come from inside us, from harnessing our hatred and the need to destroy and using all that energy to come back to one another...What we really want to belong to is love."
And you can BET...
The America in Therapy model is unlike any method you heard of before…
…This is something completely different, because…
We don't focus on partisan politics or ideological battles
We don't target others for blame, shame, or judgment
We don't employ power-over dynamics, or domination and forced submission
We know that verbal and physical violence produce more of the same
In fact: we don’t approach social and political issues without first considering their impact on both individuals and the collective, their effectiveness, and the psychological and mental health aspects of our nation
Instead We Practice High-Tech Human Relations Built On Safety, Peace, And Love...
This is something completely different and it has the power to change everything for you…
…and I know that’s true…
Because it changed everything for me.
The America in Therapy Model allowed me to sort through and eliminate 99% of the terribly outdated rhetoric and belief systems that only feed the partisan divide and the hatred it perpetuates when it comes to addressing our national crisis
OUTDATED BELIEF SYSTEMS:
Fighting violence with more violence
Taking power from others, not sharing it
Targeting the most vulnerable to keep power
Blaming victims for their symptoms
Competing as individual entities without regard for the common good
Silencing truth-tellers and their cries for help
Rewarding complicity with those who exploit or harm others
Treating mental health as separate from our national wellbeing
The America In Therapy Model Allowed Me To Take Everything I Learned From 34 Years Of Psychotherapy Out Of The Office And Into National Conversation, Knowing That What Works to Help Heal Individuals and Families Can Work To Help Heal A Country
I’M AMAZED AT HOW MY BELIEFS ABOUT MYSELF AND OTHERS, AND MY ABILITY TO MANIFEST MY DREAMS AND ASPIRATIONS, HAVE IMPROVED DRAMATICALLY!
In my work with hundreds of clients, I have watched lives change– relationships get better, creativity flourishes, parenting becomes more loving and effective, divorce results in far less injury to ex-partners and their children, and more. THESE WERE THE BIG CLUES THAT THE BEST OF WHAT WE HAVE LEARNED FROM PSYCHOLOGY, WHICH UNDERLIES THE AMERICA IN THERAPY MODEL, CAN BE APPLIED TO A COUNTRY AND EVEN THE WORLD.
Here's what I used to believe and how I felt and reacted–
Before I studied psychology and understood the critical importance of our conditioning on an individual and then on a national level
Before I realized that we cannot fully understand the individual without examining the beliefs, behaviors and role models of the larger systems they live in– family of origin, workplace, religion, community, and governmental institutions
Before I realized that we cannot fully understand what is going on in our country without looking deeply into what is shaping the lives of the individuals and groups that make it up
I used to believe there were just bad people. I didn’t have a clue that individual family conditioning– let alone the influence of the larger communities we are a part of– had anything to do with how we feel about ourselves and others, the choices we make, the ways we feel blocked or powerless or misguided in our efforts to effect change in our own lives or in our larger communities. I certainly didn’t believe my one voice mattered in the face of mass movements, unfair laws, discrimination, greed, injustice and war.
If you've ever tried to address our national crisis, then I'm sure you can relate to how overwhelming it can feel and how difficult it is to imagine you can make a difference when, on a daily basis you witness…
Growing divisions, polarization and escalating violence and hatred in our nation
Increasing partisan battles and ideological fights
The investment in combating violence with more violence
A political and media focus on blame, shame and punishment
The silencing of victims' cries for help and dismissal of their legitimate grievances
The cycle of abuse continue and intensify
The cycle of abuse confounds too many of us. We take it almost for granted that there is no real solution except to fight off our “enemies” the best we can to save ourselves. When all the time in my individual work I saw that interrupting the cycle of abuse and neglect was not only possible but what most of us deeply desire. I couldn’t help but see the glaring disconnect between the healing individuals are capable of and are so fulfilled by, and the policies and and practices on the largest levels of politics and culture that do not even aim toward the restoration of peace and cooperation for mutual benefit as a goal.
What I couldn’t help but see is that as a nation we are too often behaving toward one another (and countless people around the world) the way abusers behave toward their family members– WITH THE SAME DEVASTATING RESULTS!
And so–I KNEW I NEEDED TO TAKE WHAT I HAD LEARNED OUT OF MY OFFICE AND INTO THE WORLD!
I felt compelled to give it all I had, to translate everything I knew about healing our human relations – and in the process healing ourselves–from the personal to the collective, from one family to the Family of America.
I knew that if we could understand and adopt the principles and the practices of America in Therapy, we would have the know-how necessary to turn this whole devastating us-against-them system upside down and bring us together in the same peaceful, life-giving way I experience in my own life and have seen so many clients and friends achieve themselves.
This comprehensive model was years in the making...
I Put This Entire System In A 201 Page Book Called "America in Therapy" And You Can Start Reading It In Just A Few Moments From Now...
But before you do.
I’d like to introduce myself.
My name is Phyllis Leavitt…
I am a psychotherapist and an author as you know, and I am also an ordinary person who has had the good fortune to live long enough to have made my way out of the darkest times of my early life– something I never thought possible when I was younger. I am now happily married and live with my husband up in the mountains of Taos where I can hike and be in close contact with the beauty of nature, wildlife, and the most stunning sunsets imaginable. I have three amazing grown children and three grandchildren I love dearly. I also have a close group of very like-minded friends here in Taos who I can share deeply with. I've had a successful 34-year career as a psychotherapist helping hundreds of people heal from dysfunctional family dynamics, trauma and abuse, and I have written three books, A Light in the Darkness, Into the Fire, and America in Therapy. I have always had a calling to be of service and to write, and being retired from my practice now has allowed me to devote my time to the projects and people I love most.
Do You Want To Know What The Main Difference Is Between The America In Therapy Model And The “Old Way” Of Doing Things?
The old way of doing things relies on the belief that you are right and others wrong, which then justifies forcing others to comply with your point of view, your values, your needs, and your agendas. It relies on the use of force, on a Win/Lose model of human relations, on exerting power over others, and on the belief that might equals right. The old way too often culminates in abuse, neglect, and war of one kind or another.
But what many people don’t know is that the use of force to get one’s way and the terribly violent methods we often use to ensure success ARE WHAT CREATED OUR WOUNDS AND THE WORST OF OUR SYMPTOMS AND BEHAVIORS IN THE FIRST PLACE! We cannot continue to do more of the same expecting different results.
The America in Therapy Model exposes this pivotal understanding.
WHAT IS THE BOTTOM LINE THAT IS EITHER NOT WIDELY KNOWN OR DELIBERATELY IGNORED?
The bottom line, the secret of mental health hidden in plain sight, is very simply this:
OUR MOST DESTRUCTIVE BELIEFS AND BEHAVIORS ALL STEM FROM AN INJURY TO LOVE AND SAFE BELONGING. VIOLENCE BEGETS VIOLENCE.
If our deepest wounds stem from an injury to love and safe belonging, then our work is to restore ourselves, not only in our own lives but also in our largest social and political arenas, to love and safe belonging.
It is that simple and that challenging.
This is the heart of the America in Therapy Model. Many of those in power positions would have us believe this is naive, “airy-fairy” or just plain impossible. But if restoring ourselves to love and safe belonging, beginning with the commitment to do so, is what heals abuse, neglect and other dysfunctional and destructive behaviors on an individual level, it can unquestionably heal our largest family groupings including our nation. What is a nation but a collection of individual people?
The America in Therapy Model includes both the mindset, deep understanding, and skills to begin to heal our individual and collective wounds and reorient ourselves toward a Win/Win for ourselves, our country and humanity.
And The Result Of Using This New Way?
The result of the new way is that we create the kind of world we all actually want to live in ourselves– one where we are cared for, valued, included, provided for, and supported to express our gifts and appreciated for our strengths.
The world I believe we all really want to live in is one in which we have learned to treat ALL other people the way we want to be treated ourselves!
Which Naturally Leads To…
It has been so rewarding to find readers and listeners who resonate deeply with my work, who feel inspired to take action and make use of this new platform for change in their own lives and share it with other people.
And the best part of the process of writing and sharing my message is that I have found something I believe in, something constructive and healing to share with others. It is so important that we each know we can contribute, no matter how grand or small the scale we think we operate on. And finding healing for our own wounds and blocks is the perfect place to start to alleviate feelings of helplessness and resignation, and orient ourselves toward applying new skills in the relationships and circumstances where we can make a real difference.
Presenting America In Therapy To a Wonderful Receptive Audience in Dixon, NM, With Q&A and Many Personal Shares
The exciting thing is that…
If you follow the principles and apply the skills of America in Therapy in your own life, your relationships will transform, you will feel less reactive and more able to make the changes and create the relationships you desire.
But it’s much more than that..
It’s Actually A Completely Transformative Way Of Addressing The Root Causes Of Division And Conflict On All Levels Of Society That Can Lead To Lasting Peace, Connection, And Fulfillment In Our Country And Around The World
When you learn the principles of America in Therapy and apply the skills I am sharing with you that create a new paradigm of human relations, your understanding of human nature and all that is unfolding in the world around you will change dramatically.
How many traditional self-help or societal healing models have you seen come and go through the years?
We try political debates, argue louder and more aggressively, but only create more polarization…
We look for one person or group to “save” us and forget that we have the power to start the process of changing the structure of our culture ourselves, one person and one group at a time
Or we turn to quick-fix solutions that ignore the deeper mental health dynamics at play…
Or we rely on outdated approaches that don’t apply to the world we live in today and don’t address the complexity of our current challenges… and often result in violence toward those who don’t agree or won’t comply
My approach, rooted in all I have learned about human psychology, family systems and family dynamics, along with decades of therapeutic experience and writing, delivers impactful, life-changing results on the individual level.
It’s time to go bigger at this time of great crisis in our country and around the world.
And yes, it can be scary to challenge the status quo…
I have to admit it is scary to leave the relative safety of my individual therapy office and go public with the secrets I have learned about what it will take to heal our national relations and why it is urgent that we do so now. The America in Therapy Model will not be popular with those who are invested in extremes of power and control, who profit from keeping us at odds with each other, who justify and advocate violence, and who rely on discrimination, withholding of resources, and domination dynamics to stay in power.
But we know now that we actually come into the world wired for love and belonging. And therefore, to the extent we deliberately withhold these things from others, we do damage to our inherent humanity.
The America in Therapy Model is founded on a whole new set of paradigms and values that will completely upend the operating systems we are currently using. Anyone who has done some serious healing work can tell you that the same has been true in their own life– healing brings change, which can be quite challenging while it also brings relief and new possibilities.
You may recognize most of what I list here, but what is revolutionary is that we have not yet applied these principles on a broad scale or even committed to trying at the national level. Among these are:
A belief in the equal value of all people
An embracing and acceptance of our dependency on one another to survive here
A willingness to share power
An understanding that competition in today’s world is only safe when held within a container of cooperation for mutual benefit
An understanding that the good of the individual must be in balance with the good of others and the good of the whole human family, and vice versa.
We Must Change Our Relationship to Power!
Here’s why:
There are two types of change-makers out there.
There are the "Power-Over People" and there are "Power-With People".
Power-Over People try to dominate and control others through force. They silence, blame, ostracize and punish and even kill those they disagree with. They are determined to win at all costs. Their use of power can take the form of righteousness, dismissal, ignoring, discrimination, withholding of necessities, as well as overt violence.
But what we know from the field of psychology is that excessive use of force on other people is itself a symptom of dysfunctional and abusive human relations. We must treat root causes, which means ultimately, that we must find a safe, healing way to interrupt the cycle of violence if we want to stop it.
When I was young, not knowing any better, I tried in vain to treat my own symptoms– fear, depression, isolation, attraction to people and situations that were not good for me, drivenness to over-achieve– all by forcing myself to hide my feelings and try with all my might to look like I had it together. And this approach, as you can imagine, not only further separated me from myself and had me feel like I didn’t belong anywhere, but it was actually a kind of emotional violence directed at myself.
And as critical as I was of myself, I was that critical of other people as well.
Without knowing there were causes to my symptoms, I believed I was the problem and the only solution I knew was to develop more and more sophisticated “defenses.”
Without knowing there are causes to our worst symptoms as a nation and a species, we go on believing that other people are the problem and we believe the only answer is to develop greater and more aggressive defenses!... And where has it gotten us?
It wasn’t until I went to therapy and later learned even more from being a therapist myself– that I was able to formulate a new model for healing individually and collectively as outlined in America in Therapy, a model that DOES address root causes, that DOES wind back our defenses.
The solution?
So Here's The Revolutionary Idea Behind The America In Therapy Model: It Focuses On Our Mental Health Instead Of Politics
The unique gift of the best psychology is that it is intrinsically non- partisan
It seems so obvious on the individual level. When a couple comes to therapy, though both parties usually want the therapist to take their side, good therapy instead helps them listen to each other with more openness, understanding and compassion– which inevitably creates a desire for resolution and a path to reconnection and renewed love– WHICH IS WHAT THEY REALLY WANT!
This is what a focus on healing offers us on the largest societal levels... the restoration of connection instead of fighting ideological battles...
As one of my professors in graduate school said so well: “No one wins a power struggle. You may win the argument but you don’t win the relationship.”
And what we suffer from so profoundly today is the breakdown in connection with one another and the loss of love that inevitably follows.
So…
...I explain everything I have learned in my book America in Therapy. It's a 201-page book that outlines in detail all you need to know to be on the path to personal and collective healing.
Right now, many people are focused on who or what to blame rather than on real solutions to the complex issues that confound and divide us.
At the same time, there are growing movements for change, reconciliation and unity. But how do we keep these widely varying perspectives and agendas from also becoming adversarial?
We need something new and different that benefits everyone instead of temporary victories that only benefit a few and inevitably lead to more conflict.
What Does The America In Therapy Model Offer That Is So New And Different?
It is this-- IT GETS US OUT OF THE WIN/LOSE MODEL OF HUMAN RELATIONS!
Any model that focuses on one person or group winning means someone else has to lose. The human race has been operating on this model of domination and submission for millennia and while we have achieved what many might call great successes with this model, we have also left countless millions dead in its wake. And the ways we can now “win” any given disagreement or conflict of interest are potentially lethal to all of life as we know it.
The America in Therapy Model offers a WIN/WIN.
What we control is our own aggressive impulses
What we reflect on is our own motivations
What we take responsibility for is our impact on others
What we commit to is resolving our differences peacefully
What we aim for is reconnecting with each other in a spirit of cooperation for mutual good
It does this beautifully in a few easy steps of Repair...
These are what I call the answers lying hidden in plain sight. They are really nothing new but at the same time they are revolutionary–
WHY? Because we don’t yet use this model on a national and international level.
When my children were little, several of our acquaintances got together and created our own parent-run school. One of my fondest memories of our curriculum was that we introduced the children to non-competitive games– no winners and losers. The games were designed for everyone to feel successful and enjoy. We had the same goal in the classroom. Our focus was on ALL children learning to the very best of their ability, not on who could read faster or who was better at math.
And in that environment, there was no bullying. Skirmishes were handled with the goal of listening and resolution. The children were LOVED equally for who they were.
Sure, some kids had more friends than others, and some kids were better at math, but no one was a scapegoat, no one was ostracized.
We were teaching High Tech Human Relations as much as we were teaching academics.
If this can be done with elementary school children, IT CAN BE DONE WITH LARGER GROUPS OF PEOPLE!
Fueling partisan battles with the WIN/LOSE model of human relations, is actually one huge factor that is holding us back from achieving what we created (of course not perfectly) in our parent-run school!
The old way requires endless conflict, building bigger weapons, targeting others, and justifying abuse.
High-Tech Human Relations require a commitment to safety, peace and love through understanding psychology and practicing the Six Elements of Repair – all fully outlined in America in Therapy.
And that's why this is different.
I Will Make You This Promise!
You can help heal our growing divisions and create lasting positive change when you start using this America in Therapy Model...
You will know that you have a workable path to safety, peace and love in your life that you can return to again and again. And the more you practice these principles, the less you will want to fight and dominate others and the more you will experience the benefits in your own life and want to share them with others.
This happens naturally when we understand and address the psychological roots of our problems through High-Tech Human Relations. So let’s be clear what High Tech Human Relations are. They are everything the abuse and neglect are not! High Tech Human Relations are characterized by qualities such as:
Love, care, compassion, cooperation for mutual good, tolerance and celebration of diversity, inclusion, healthy boundaries, self-responsibility, honesty, a commitment to non-violent communication and conflict resolution, a desire for reconnection and the commitment to leave others in peace when agreement and reconnection are not Possible.
In a nutshell, moving toward High Tech Human Relations very simply means we treat other people the way we want them to treat us!
Here’s What You Can Do Now!
Set your calendar right now - set it to one month from today.
Because If you implement everything I'm going to share with you in the America in Therapy book, you'll start seeing your first signs of real healing in your relationships and community. You will feel you have a well-defined path to follow though the complexities of your relationships and your place in this challenging world.
I know this sounds simplistic, maybe even Pollyanna–ish, and I won’t say that implementing what you will find in America in Therapy will always be easy, or that it won’t challenge you to grow in ways you may not have imagined possible…
But I guarantee that if you even just begin to shift your focus to all I have outlined in the America In Therapy Model,
You Will See A Path Forward That You Didn’t Know Existed
Ultimately I want you to know one thing..
The America In Therapy Model Changed My Life,
It Can Change Yours
And It Can Change “Ours”
It took me thirty plus years treating trauma and abuse in my therapy office to put the pieces together…
...and another three years to find just the right way to present them by writing America in Therapy.
You don’t have to reinvent the wheel!
I can’t tell you what it would have meant to me if I had had the kind of clarity and direction available in America in Therapy when I was young. But I know it doesn't always work this way. I learned from many people and many sources over many years.
I didn’t have to reinvent their discoveries: I was able to build on them through applying what I learned.
And that is my hope for you– that you will apply all you learn from America in Therapy and it will become a foundation for something entirely new in your life!
You just need to download this book and most important of all - implement it!
That’s it…
Here's The Exact 4 Step System Revealed In The America In Therapy Book For Healing Our Ourselves And Our National Crisis
Step 1 - Psychological Understanding - (We learn to stop verbal and physical violence by leaving our weapons at the door)
Step 2 - Heal the Victims Inside Us All - (We examine our motives and impact on others with honesty and courage and help others do the same)
Step 3 - Take Responsibility - (We make amends and commit to new ways of relating to each other)
Step 4 - Peaceful Resolution - (We find peaceful solutions that work for everyone through High-Tech Human Relations)
Those are the 4 steps to collective healing. .
All of this is revealed in the 201 page America in Therapy book in step-by-step detail.
Making it a revolutionary approach to addressing our national crisis for anyone who seeks real and lasting change.
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Here's What Else You're Going To Discover In America in Therapy:
How To Understand Abuse Dynamics (So You Can Stop The Cycle of Violence)All Explained On Page 49
The Secret Behind Learned Helplessness (So You Can Break Free From Powerlessness) All Explained On Page 59
How Fighting Violence With Violence Prevents You From Creating Real Change (And What To Do Instead) All Explained On Page 81
The Step-By-Step Process To Practice The Six Elements of Repair (So You Can Create Lasting Healing) All Explained On Page 111
How To Move From Power-Over to Power-With Relationships (So You Can Build True Connection) All Explained On Page 133
The Truth About Our National Mental Health Crisis (And How To Address It) All Explained On Page 5
Why Blame And Shame Don't Work (And How To Create Real Accountability) All Explained On Page 75
The Connection Between Individual And Collective Trauma (And How To Heal Both)All Explained On Page 91
How To Embrace Healthy Dependency (So You Can Build Sustainable Relationships)All Explained On Page 101
The Case For Safety In Our Communities (And How To Create It) All Explained On Page 133
Why Peace Is Not Weakness (And How It Takes More Strength Than War)All Explained On Page 155
The Role Of Love In National Healing (And How To Foster It) All Explained On Page 175
How To Identify Victims' Cries For Help (Instead Of Punishing Symptoms) All Explained On Page 81
The Path To High-Tech Human Relations (And How To Practice Them) All Explained On Page 33
Why Individual Therapy Principles Apply To National Healing (And How To Use Them) All Explained On Page 19
The Truth About Equality (And Why It Matters For Everyone) All Explained On Page 167
How To Create Safe Containers For Difficult Conversations (So Real Change Can Happen) All Explained On Page 195
The Connection Between Mental Health And National Security (And How To Address Both) All Explained On Page 1
The Role Of Reflection In Healing (And How To Practice It) All Explained On Page 91
Why Reconnection Is The Ultimate Goal (And How To Achieve It) All Explained On Page 111
All together, this is a formula for how to create lasting safety, peace and love in your relationships and communities while healing our collective trauma and building a sustainable future!
If healing ourselves and our growing national crisis is what you seek, this is the ultimate guide on how to achieve it.
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“Melissa and I have recently reconnected and yesterday we had a date and read your PDF on Repair together. It was the nicest experience and really facilitated a healing dialogue and heart expansion between us.
Thank you for all you are doing for the world, and what you have done for us.”
This practical companion guides helps you turn insights into action, with step-by-step exercises and reflection prompts that will help you:
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Transform conflicts into opportunities for deeper understanding and growth
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How To Understand Abuse Dynamics (So You Can Stop The Cycle of Violence)
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The Secret Behind Learned Helplessness (So You Can Break Free From Powerlessness) All Explained On Page 59
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How Fighting Violence With Violence Prevents You From Creating Real Change (And What To Do Instead) All Explained On Page 81
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How To Move From Power-Over to Power-With Relationships (So You Can Build True Connection) All Explained On Page 133
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America in Therapy is designed for anyone concerned about our growing national divisions, from activists and community leaders to individuals seeking to create positive change in their relationships and communities.
What is America in Therapy?
America in Therapy is a groundbreaking approach to healing our national crisis through understanding psychology. It's not just another political solution that comes and goes. After 34 years treating trauma and abuse, I'm sharing how psychological principles can transform our collective future.
I want this; what exactly am I getting?
America in Therapy provides a complete framework for understanding abuse dynamics and practicing High-Tech Human Relations. You'll learn the Six Elements of Repair: restraint, responsibility, reflection, rehabilitation, resolution, and reconnection. You'll understand how to move from power-over to power-with relationships and create lasting safety, peace and love. You’ll also receive Conflict Type Quiz to help you identify your exact conflict type and how to manage it.
How is this different from all the other stuff out there?
Most approaches focus on political solutions and ideological battles. America in Therapy is different because we address social and political issues from a psychological perspective. Instead of fighting violence with more violence, instead of proposing yet another ideology or argue against other approaches, we focus on understanding and healing the root causes of our collective trauma– which is fundamentally a mental health issue– as the access to change we can all participate in together.
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